Leading Through Scary Season – Part 2 – Bulls
Since I wrote last week, Scary Season has gotten even scarier, with the fires and horrific air quality in the Bay Area. Today, one impactful idea, based on one of Stephen Covey’s best lessons from his timeless classic 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.
Covey’s first habit is “be proactive.” Within it, he illustrates it:
Covey says we gain power, effectiveness, and I would add a strong sense of agency, as we move from our circle of concerns (Covid, climate, BLM, Trump/Biden, our democracy, our economy) to our circle of influence. So, I’ve been thinking about where I’m spending my time and energy, in accordance with what Covey writes:
“Proactive people focus their efforts in the Circle of Influence. They work on the things they can do something about. The nature of their energy is positive, enlarging and magnifying, causing their Circle of Influence to increase.” Steven Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, p. 83
Perhaps the best thing you can do – both for you and for the issue(s) about which you have concern – is to shift your attention and your energy into that inner circle. Here are three examples of how I’m making this move in:
|Issue of Concern||Actions and impact of reactive Concern||Actions and impact of moving into Influence|
|Trump scares me (maybe Biden scares you)||
Actions: worry, complain, rant, read and watch only those who confirm my views and my fears, blame others.
Impact: such behaviors make me feel powerless, likely convince no one, and cause me to lose the power/energy I have.
Impact: A sense of agency, doing what I can do.
|Fires in the West scare me||See above||
|#BLM saddens and angers me||See above||
How can you concentrate on your inner Circle of Influence to feel like you have agency and spend your energy where it makes a difference, and thus make the season a little less Scary?
Lead with your best self!